At 26, there’s a lot of things I wish I could tell my younger self. I have learned so many life lessons and things I believed as a teen, I have learned just don’t matter in life as much as I thought.
- Most of your friends won’t stay your friends after you graduate high school. There will be a select few that you’ll stay in touch with. There is a select few that you will keep in touch with and I have learned to embrace those friendships and cherish those few people in my life. I firmly believe that the ones you don’t stay in touch with is for a reason, you aren’t meant to keep them as a friend. If they wanted to stay in touch, they would.
- What people think about you doesn’t matter. You cannot live your life comparing yourself to others. You will be miserable if you live your life trying to keep up with the Jones’. In High School I got so wrapped up in worrying about what I ate and how much I worked out because I got caught up in comparing myself to others. I was a cheerleader and I worked out besides my cheer practices.
- Do you. Who cares if your friends think your hobbies are dumb? Do what you love and don’t apologize for being yourself.
- You don’t HAVE to go to college. If you want to go to college do it for you. College really isn’t something that you absolutely have to do. If you really don’t want to go to college… don’t. In all reality, college doesn’t guarantee you will come out of it with a high paying job that will pay off all those dang student loans you’re stuck with.
- The most important investment you make is in yourself. Your skincare and makeup make a difference, find what works with your skin. You only get one body, take care of it. This also goes for mental health. Take care of your mental health. If you need to take antidepressants… your happiness is the most important thing.
- Treat your family and loved ones with kindness. Tomorrow is not always guaranteed. Treat every day like it’s your last. Tell your loved ones you love them any chance you get.
- Enjoy being young while you’re young. Don’t spend all your teenage years wishing you were an adult because that will come soon enough. The responsibilities of being an adult are stressful so enjoy being young while you are young. Once you become an adult everything changes and life gets a little more difficult.
There’s probably a lot more things I wish I could tell my younger self but these are the ones I can think of. I remember worrying so much about what others thought as a teen and trying to keep up with what was cool. I remember wanting to be an adult, like we all do when we’re in High School but adulting isn’t all it’s cracked up to be… Its a lot of work and responsibility.
What were some things you wish you could tell your younger self?
Ashley